MALMSTROM AIR FORCE BASE, Mont. -- The struggles of military life can sometimes be overwhelming with deployments, temporary duty assignments, permanent changes of station and everything else in between.
The military provides members and their dependents an opportunity to talk about day-to-day stressors with licensed clinical counselors.
“A Military Family Life Consultant provides non-medical, solution-focused counseling for active duty, Reserve and Guard military members and their dependents in all branches of service,” said Rhonda Carlson, 341st Force Support Squadron Airman and Family Readiness Center director. “MFLCs can also see retirees and their dependents for up to 180 days.”
MFLC services are free and confidential. No records or notes are stored from the sessions. MFLCs do not report to anyone in the military, but are required to take appropriate measures in reporting if the situation calls for it.
“Counseling services are provided for military lifestyle issues and life skills,” Carlson said. “If a client divulges they are going to hurt themselves or someone else, MFLCs must report it. Child or domestic abuse is also required to be reported.”
According to Desiree Gaines, 341st Force Support Squadron Airman and Family Readiness work life specialist, MFLC services are a great resource for the base. The sessions give military members and their dependents a chance to open up in a way they feel they are not being judged.
Life skill sessions include anger management, communication, relationship issues, conflict resolution, productivity at work, and parenting and decision-making skills. Military lifestyle sessions include deployment stress, coping skills, relocation adjustments, grief, loss, homesickness, and separation and reintegration.
“Anyone eligible can simply call and make an appointment with a counselor,” Carlson said. “MFLCs can meet a member in the AFRC office or anywhere in a public location on base for safety reasons.”
Members can also be referred to see a MFLC by family members, friends or even leadership.
“I think it’s a very valuable resource that a lot of people overlook,” Gaines said.
Individuals who have questions about the MFLC program or want to schedule an appointment can call 406-750-3605.